Showing posts with label parenting tools. Show all posts
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Friday, April 27, 2018

First Ask Why by Shelly Wildman (Book Review!)

First Ask Why: Raising Kids to Love God Through Intentional Discipleship

by Shelly Wildman

(received in exchange for an honest review)

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Genre- Religion / Christian Life / Family

Published by- Kregel Publications

Copyrighted- 2018

Number of pages- 176

Age Group- Adult (Parents)

Description of book- paperback, listed price- $14.99, ISBN 978-0-8254-4486-9

Parenting can be really tough.  We are bombarded with with information and advice, and we feel that we aren’t doing it right at all.  Most books focus on how to get the behavior we expect.  Shelly Wildman and her husband decided to focus on how to focus on your family and children individually.  No family is the same, so we need to focus on building a firm foundation for our children and families.

About the Author-

Shelly Wildman currently lives in Illinois and is a mom of three adult daughters.  She is a writer and speaker.

My thoughts-

This book is one of the most interesting parenting books I’ve read.  It really shows how to strengthen and grow my family.  I know as a Christian that it is important to help our children to grow in their life with God.  This book shows how Shelly Wildman and her husband did this in her family.

I like how this book is divided into four sections: “Our Charge,” “Our Challenge,” “Our Compassion,” and “Our Contribution.”  I could focus on the areas that I thought are the most important to our family at this point in time. 

I did spend a lot of time reading, underlining, and studying the information in this book, so I can best serve my children.  I really appreciated the questions at the end of each chapter, because they gave me a way to think more deeply about the chapter.

I would like to have a bibliography at the back of the book.  There were so many interesting books listed, that I an easy to view list of them.

I highly recommend this book to parents and soon-to-be parents. 

Disclosure of Material Connection- I received First Ask Why, by Shelly Wildman, for free from Kregel Publications’ Blog Tour.  All links were current when posted.  I was not required to write a positive review.  The opinions I have expressed are my own or those of my family.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255.


Wednesday, October 8, 2014

9 Traits of a Life-Giving Mom by Sue Detweiler

9 Traits of a Life-Giving Mom: Replacing My Worst with God’s Best

by Sue Detweiler

(I received this book for review purposes.)

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Genre- Christian / Nonfiction / Parenting

Publisher- Morgan James Publishing

Copyrighted- 2014

Number of pages- 200

Age Group- Adult (women)

Description of book- Paperback, $16.99, ISBN: 978-11630471149

9 Traits of a Life-Giving Mom, by Sue Detweiler, is a book show moms the nine traits (nine fruits of the Spirit) that can help them find peace with their lives.  Some of the traits are:

  • Love
  • Patience
  • Kindness
  • Self-control 

This book contains prayers at the end of each chapter and a study guide for each of the nine traits at the end of the book. 

About the Author:

Sue Detweiler is a mom to six children and is also a radio host, speaker and author.  She has been married for 30 years.

My thoughts:  

9 Traits of a Life-Giving Mom, by Sue Detweiler, was a very interesting book.  I saw myself in some of the negative traits that I have that I need to change into God’s traits, like anxiety to peace and fear into faithfulness. 

I was glad that Detweiler added a lot of anecdotes from her life into this book.  It really helped me to be able to admit to myself the traits that I need to change.  There were many stories that I found that could have helped me if I had those problems too.  I was very proud of her for sharing her stories. 

I thought the study guide was very helpful.  I would have preferred to have them at the end of the chapter, because I like being able read and answer the questions as soon as I finish the chapter without having to turn to the end of the book and then go back.

This was a very good book.  I would recommend to all moms and moms-to-be.

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Disclosure of Material Connection- I received a free copy of 9 Traits of a Life-Giving Mom, by Sue Detweiler, to review.  I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way.  The opinions I have expressed are my own.  I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC Regulations.  I am part of The CWA Review CrewAll links were current when posted.

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Character Education from We Choose Virtues (Schoolhouse Crew Review)

We received this for review purposes!

Product Links: Parenting Cards

Vendor Information Link:  We Choose Virtues

Age Appeal: 3-11

Format: Physical virtue cards and downloads

Price: $38.49

Have you been looking for a good parenting tool to teach your children about the virtues?  The King James Version Parenting Cards from We Choose Virtues might be just what you family needs.  Your family will learn twelve different virtues:

  • diligence
  • helpfulness
  • perseverance
  • gentleness
  • contentment
  • attentiveness
  • honesty
  • kindness
  • self-control
  • patience
  • obedience
  • forgiveness
  • Each card has similar features with a Bible verse and what the virtue is not on the front of the card.  The back of the card has a “Virtue User Challenge,” description of the virtue, “What to say after ‘I’m sorry,’” “Teachable moments for … families…,” and “The Kids of VirtueVille.”

    There is also a free download available with your order:

    • Family Character Assessment  (PDF Download)

    Our Experience: 

    I have always known that our family needed to increase our knowledge of the virtues and integrate them into our daily lives.  I was excited when we were chosen to review the King James Version of the virtue cards.

    As soon as we got the e-mail I downloaded the Teacher’s Handbook and the Family Character Assessment.  The children and I worked on filling out the assessment.  They learned that they had some challenges ahead, but I knew they were up for the challenge.  I took a look at the “Teacher’s Handbook” and it was very good and helpful.  I took a look at the handbook, then I decided we would do two cards a week.  I had B and C choose which virtue they wanted to work on, then we looked at it and studied it.  We would take the challenges and learn from them.  We placed the cards on the bookshelf in the schoolroom so we could look at them daily to see what virtues we had learned. 

    Now that we have learned the virtues, we go through them daily to see which ones need work and which ones B and C have learned well.

    Mama’s Thoughts:

    • I really liked all of the downloads that were made available to us that are part of the WCV Download Bundle.  B and C are not into coloring anymore, so we did not print the “Kids of VirtueVille Coloring Book.”  These coloring pages would be perfect for young children or children who like to color.
    • The Butterfly Awards were cute, but I do not think that boys would be interested in them.  They looked like they would be perfect for girls.  B and C enjoy verbal praise not pieces of paper, so I chose not to use them. 
    • I liked that all twelve of the virtue cards were set up in the same way.  They had the “Virtue User Challenge,” “What to say after ‘I’m sorry,’” and “Teachable moments for (the virtue) families…” on the back of the cards.  The front of the card had the virtue, what the person should and should not do and a memory verse from the Old Testament. 
    • B and C really enjoyed “The Kids of VirtueVille” and their stories.  My favorite character was Hat Matt, because he was very helpful.  He wanted to help and he did it.  I did not like the character of Cake Jake, because he got to eat as much cake as he wanted to every day.  I did not think that set a good example for the children.  B and C did not like the character of Cake Jake either.
    • One of my favorites was the teachable moments, because it was something we could do as a family to become stronger. 

    B’s Thoughts (boy, age 10, officially in fourth grade):   

    My favorite card was “I am Attentive.”  I liked it, because I like watching and listening carefully.  I liked the Kids of VirtueVille on the cards, except for “Content.”  I did not like the Cake Jake story.  I did not think it was very good, because he got cake as much as he wanted and whenever.  I did not think that was a very good example.  I think he should have only gotten one flavor of cake per day and having more should have been the “wanter.”

    I would recommend these virtue cards for people of all ages.

    C’s Thoughts (girl, age 8, officially in second grade):

    It was fun using the virtue cards.  I liked all of the virtues.  I did not like the character for “I am Content.”  I did not think that it was a very good idea for Jake to get cake whenever he wanted.  My favorite card was “I am Obedient.”  Oboe Joe was a good example for being obedient.

    I think it is good for people of all ages.   

    Dad’s Thoughts:

    The We Choose Virtues cards are quick and easy references, and reminders, for kids to choose to follow the virtues that will help them become successful at the tasks they need to accomplish but more importantly it will teach them how to have good relationships with others. Each 6 x 9 card has the virtue, its definition and a bible verse that references the virtue. They also have a Virtue User Challenge on the back as well as “Teachable moments for (the specific virtue) families” and “What to say after ‘I'm Sorry’".

    I'm looking forward to seeing how these tools help my children grow and may be a program that you would like to do with your family. Check it out. 

    Mama highly recommends!

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